What I’ve Learned, So Far

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This whole parenting thing is an ever evolving, ever changing job.  I feel like I’ve got it down pretty well on Monday, and by Tuesday everything’s up in the air again.  I am constantly learning, constantly listening and asking for opinions.

I had decided that I wasn’t going to be that mom that gave into tantrums over the color of a sippy cup.  If she didn’t want the pink one, tough.

Then I read an article how toddlers have so little control over their lives, that sometimes the color of a sippy cup really is that important.

So I started giving Adelaide choices.  Did she want the pink sippy cup or the purple.  The striped diaper or the one with the cherries?  (She chooses the one with the cherries, every time.)

I started to pay attention to what was important to her.

It might seem silly or trivial to me, but it matters to her.

So it matters to me.

And all of the sudden, the tantrums lessened.  When she gets upset, I get down to her level, and I try to understand her.

She is after all, my best friend.

The funniest person I know.

Doesn’t she deserve my listening ear?

So that’s where we’re at.  You can find us debating sippy cup colors and shoes and toothbrushes.

It might not look exactly like I thought it would, and that’s okay.

I’m so thankful for my sweet girl always reminding me that I don’t have it all figured out.

And that’s okay.

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Happy 2nd Birthday, Adelaide!

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OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA I can’t believe a whole year has gone by since we celebrated your first birthday.

Two years since I sat in that hospital room, staring down in disbelief at the precious child in my arms.

That she was mine.

That you were mine.

You’ve changed so much in the last year.  Heck, in the last month.  All of the sudden you were speaking in sentences and knew all of your colors.  You started saying your name (although you put an L in front of it, so it sounds more like “Ladelaide”).

Your dad and I are amazed at how much of a girly girl you are.  You started requesting to wear hair bows, so I had to go out and buy you some.  You insist on wearing dresses and don’t even get me started on shoes.  You know which ones you want, and no others will do.  So help me if I try to convince you that mary janes are in fact, not practical, for the beach.

You quickly determined that purple is your favorite color, and if there is a purple option, that is what you must have.

You’ve been to seven countries (and both hemispheres) and you travel like a champ.

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You are silly and smart and I am so lucky to be your mama.  Happy 2nd birthday, my love.

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Home Sweet Home

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I posted on Instagram last night that we bought a house, so here’s the story of how we went from not looking to buy to homeowners in 6 weeks:

Jon and I had always had moving to Long Island in our plans for the future.  After I left my job, we really didn’t have a reason to be living in the city (besides of course, loving the city).  Jon has worked in Long Island for almost 7 years, making the reverse commute out of the city every day.  We were also paying city taxes and of course living in a one bedroom apartment and dealing with street parking (our car has been hit while parked so many times that I’ve lost count) and walking the dog in sub-zero temperatures, many times with toddler in tow.  While we were planning to move, we weren’t looking to buy.

We were planning to rent.  Home prices out here are sky high and so we just never even thought about buying.  We would check Craig’s List pretty regularly looking for rentals.  We wanted to rent something that was dog friendly with a yard, 2 bedrooms and close to Jon’s office.  The pickings were slim.

Then one Sunday afternoon I was scrolling through Facebook and saw an ad that the Property Brothers were coming to the New York area and looking for applicants.  Without even telling Jon, I decided to apply.

(For anyone who isn’t obsessed with HGTV like myself, Property Brothers is a show where the brothers help find you a fixer upper and then renovate it into your dream home.  Spoiler alert: they didn’t call us back.)

So here I am, applying for the show and it asks if you’re interested in a particular home.  We of course weren’t, so I said no and tried to submit the application.  But the application couldn’t be submitted without the listing from a home of interest, so I literally did a super fast Google search for our budget and area and our house came up as one of the first homes.  I liked the street name, the house was in the perfect area, within our price range, in excellent condition but still needed some fixing up.  So I put it on the application and hit submit.

We went about the rest of our day, and then did Adelaide’s bedtime routine.  After she was down I looked at Jon and told him I couldn’t stop thinking about this house.  So he looked at it and agreed that he also loved it.

Then I called my mom and told her.  She always talks me down from my crazy plans, but she loved the idea as well.

Jon and I then decided we’d go see the house, and see if we liked it as much in person as we did online.  I emailed a realtor that a friend recommended and he got back to me that we could go see the house on Tuesday.

Tuesday we went to see the house without even being pre-approved by the bank (not recommended, ha).  We loved it.  Maybe even more in person than online.  It was built 60 years ago and the same owner has lived in it the entire time, taking excellent care of it.  You could really tell this home had been loved.

We got the bad news that someone else had just put in an offer, so there was competition.  Jon got the ball rolling on getting pre-approval with the bank and we submitted a full priced offer the next morning.  A painstaking 24 hours went by when we finally got the call that our offer had been accepted.

That weekend we did the home inspection, which came back much better than we had anticipated.  You never know with an older home, and we were pleasantly surprised that all of the issues that came up were really minor.

We were officially under contract the Monday after Thanksgiving and closed on the house on Tuesday, December 30th.

Six weeks exactly from the day we saw the house.

(Also my dad’s 60th birthday.  Happy Birthday, Dad!)

So we’ve spent the last 2 weeks packing and unpacking.  There’s not much to show at the moment because all the projects we’ve done haven’t necessarily been blog worthy.

I hope to share with you the transformation of the house as we go along.

That being said, what should our first big project be??

Thanks so much for all of the words of congratulations.  If you’re ever in the neighborhood, we’ve got room for visitors (and extra hammers).

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Merry Christmas

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Well, meeting Santa didn’t exactly go smoothly.  We’ve been talking about Santa for the last month, saying “ho ho ho” everytime we see his image and talking about how he brings us gifts.  We finally got out to Bloomingdales to see St. Nick over the weekend and Adelaide waited on line like a champ.  The second it was her turn she just lost it.  There was no way she was going to get close to that guy.

Not even a cookie would help.

We tried.  Better luck next year?

Let us always remember that He is the reason we gather to celebrate.  That the true gift does not come wrapped in a box or with a bow.  Wishing you all a lovely holiday surrounded by those that you love.

Merry Christmas.

(You can see last year’s Santa pictures here.)

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Behind the Scenes 2014

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I think this year’s card might just be my favorite one yet.  We were a bit intimidated at the thought of trying to get a toddler and a dog to cooperate, but give them a cookie and some cream cheese and you’ve got a sure fire way to keep their attention.

I’ve been tossing around ideas for a kitchen scene for a while, and Jon was never on board.  When I suggested that he could be in the background pouring some booze into his coffee, he was suddenly a lot more interested.  I figured my favorite cards have always been the ones where something funny has been happening (Jon tied up in the Christmas lights and Brady pulling Jon down the street), so we went with it.  The original idea was for us to be dressed up in suit/tie/sparkles but last minute ditched the idea for pajamas.

Adelaide sat on her mark the entire time, happily gobbling down two very large chocolate chip cookies that we made earlier in the week.  I was running back and forth putting cream cheese on the island so Brady would jump up and lick it.  We had to take a small break to get him a step stool, because he was too short to really be seen in most of the photos.

This was our first year using lights.  We don’t get great lighting in our apartment, so Jon brought home some strobe lights to light the set.  I wish we had taken a photo of the entire setup, but it was too hectic to even think about it.  My friend Ashley came over to stand behind the camera and to get Adelaide’s attention, which was crazy helpful.

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^^I swear he wasn’t about to bite her.  Adelaide spent a good amount of the shoot trying to snuggle Brady.  She loves him so much.  Seriously, she just loves her dog.  Brady is so good with her, especially when she’s sneaking him food.

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The final image was actually 3 photographs (Adelaide and me + Brady + Jon).

I guess there are some benefits to being married to a photo geek.

(PS. You can see all of our past Christmas cards here.)

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Happiest of Holidays

 

the baloney bug Wishing everyone a wonderful holiday season with a lot of nice (and maybe a little bit of naughty).  Check in tomorrow for out takes and how it was done!

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Adelaide’s First Gingerbread House

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My friend from high school invited Adelaide and I over for a Gingerbread House making party over the weekend, and we had so much fun.

Technically, Adelaide’s fun revolved around eating the candy.  I kept looking down to see bites taken out of our Hershey kiss walkway.

Sneaky little thing.

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Christmas this year is so different than last year.  While Adelaide still has no idea who Santa is, she’s able to participate and get excited about what we’re doing.  Last year she didn’t really pay much attention to her gifts, and favored the boxes and wrapping paper instead.  This year I am so excited for Christmas morning to see her open her gifts that we’ve selected for her.  It’s taking so much will power to not run to the closet and grab them and let her play with them right now.

(My mom came thisclose to caving yesterday when she was watching Adelaide because she’s so excited as well.  Grandmas!)

We still haven’t seen Santa yet, and I’m a little nervous that she’ll flat out refuse to go anywhere near him.  Anyone have tips for meeting Santa they can share??

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20 Months

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As do her opinions.

She insists on wearing her rainboots EVERYWHERE.  Literally the second she wakes up in the morning, the first word out of her mouth is “boots”.  I made the mistake of trying to make her wear different shoes this week, and she had a major meltdown.  I thought it would pass in a few minutes, but she was literally upset that she wasn’t wearing her boots the entire time we were out.

If you see us out and about, she’ll be in her rainboots.

Before the boots, she was obsessed with a set of house keys.  One particular set.  She even held them while she napped.  Obsessed.  She still loves the keys, but she loves her boots more.

Jon and I laugh that of course our kid is obsessed with shoes.

She wants to walk everywhere.  The majority of the time she refuses to sit in the stroller or be worn, but I’m mostly okay with that because I’m not in a hurry.

Except today.  It’s really cold.

Her eating habits have gotten much better.  Her favorite food is kielbasa, which she calls “boppy”, followed by bananas and hard boiled eggs.  Well, really she just likes to crack and peel the eggs.

We were baking the other day and she was standing on her step stool “helping”, and I turn around to a raw egg all over the counter.  Someone didn’t realize that not all eggs are hard boiled…

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She’s such a sweet little girl.  So full of personality and laughter.

I’m also finding my groove as a stay at home mom.  I need to have things planned every day, because staying in the apartment would make me go stir crazy.  Adelaide takes music, art and gym classes, which are awesome for getting us out of the house and doing something we can’t do at home.

Wishing everyone a wonderful weekend!

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Five Easy Recipes You’ve Got to Try Right Now

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Up until I quit my job to stay at home, Jon did all of the cooking in our house.  We’re pretty awful at meal planning, so we’d get home from work, play with Adelaide, do bath and bedtime and by the time that was over we’d sit down, exhausted, with no idea what’s for dinner.  Jon’s one request regarding cooking, now that I stay home, is that I just figure out what we’re having for dinner.

He still doesn’t mind doing the cooking, he just doesn’t want to think about what he’s going to make.  We’d often be like “Let’s have this for dinner!” and then realize we were out of ingredients, didn’t feel like running to the store (even though it’s literally 20 feet away), so we’d scrounge up something else or get delivery.

Now that I’m home I have a bit more time to look at recipes, take trips to the store with Adelaide to grab whatever we need, and prep dinner.  I’ve cooked every single one of these meals I’m posting, so you know they’re fool proof.  And on days I let Jon do the cooking, I try to get all the spices he’ll need out, defrost the meat, etc.

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Italian Tortellini Soup

My notes: I used spicy sausage and just regular diced tomatoes.  I’d honestly never heard of Rotel, and loved it just the same without.  I served with homemade garlic bread on a french baguette (just cut down the center lengthwise and lather with butter, crushed garlic and some Parmesan), which brought the meal to another level.  This soup freezes perfectly, which was so nice to pull out on a day when we got home from a trip and had no groceries.  I also sent it to a friend who just had a baby, and he sent me a text that night asking for the recipe.  Win.

Olive Garden Zuppa Toscana Copycat Recipe

My notes: Okay, yes I like soup and I like sausage.  I’m not sure which soup I liked better.  Both were delicious.  This soup was super easy to make, and we basically stuck to the recipe exactly.  We served the Warm Bacon Salad (see next recipe), mostly because they used a lot of the same ingredients, so we had everything on hand.

Spinach Salad with Warm Bacon Dressing

My notes: I’m not sure I can convey to you how delicious this salad is.  I may have eaten some for breakfast this morning.  My only real edit is that I used regular balsamic instead of white, because after googling, decided there wasn’t much difference and it wasn’t worth buying something unnecessary.  We cut the onion really well by throwing it in our mini food processor.  Cutting onion in the food processor is my new favorite find.  Saves time and my eyes from getting all teary.  We saved the unused dressing in the fridge and just heat it up in the microwave before serving again.

Biscuit Topped Chicken Pot Pie

My notes: A few weeks ago we were having one of those cold rainy days and I wanted chicken pot pie so badly.  I found this recipe on Campbell’s site and it was beyond easy.  I’m pretty sure Adelaide could have done this one.  I used both frozen and canned veggies, because that’s what I had on hand.  I also pulled the biscuits to make them thinner before putting them on top, which I definitely suggest doing.

Best Breakfast Potatoes Ever

My notes: Technically this falls under the breakfast category, but who doesn’t love breakfast for dinner?  Okay, me.  But these help me like breakfast.  Maybe even look forward to it.  I served these with a breakfast burrito, that was equally delicious.  I kept some peppers and onions aside to use in the burritos, sauteed them in some butter for a few minutes, then added some pre-cooked chicken sausage and eggs right to that pan, cooked until the eggs were done, and put on a flour tortilla.  I then topped with some freshly grated Parmesan and salsa (I’m a big fan of Newman’s salsa) and rolled it up.  Delicious.

So there you have it.  Five meals you need to try.  Right now.

Not only are these easy, but they make me look like a super chef.  My husband is so impressed with his formerly undomestic wife suddenly making delicious meals.

You’re welcome.

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Trick or Treat

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I had a feeling that Adelaide would really love Halloween this year, so I wanted to take her on a true trick or treating experience.  In the city kids trick or treat at businesses, and it’s just not the same as the door to door experience I had as a kid.  We ultimately decided to go home to Maryland so she could trick or treat in the suburbs.  Jon was traveling for work (again), so Adelaide and I went down ahead of him and he got there just in time for trick or treating.

I hemmed and hawed for quite a while trying to figure out what I wanted to dress Adelaide as, finally deciding that she should be a sheep.  “Bahhh” is one of the animal noises she’s got down pat, so I thought it would be cute to have a little sheep running around.

I started looking for a sheep costume and was pretty unimpressed with everything I found, so I decided to try my hand at sewing one.  It took a little bit of fabric, elastic, velcro and an afternoon nap time to put it together.

Except when Adelaide woke up from nap time I couldn’t get her to try on the costume if my life depended on it.

Luckily my mom dressed her for the big day, and Adelaide will do anything for my mom.  She even kept the hood on the entire time.

Only for grandma.

A very brief rundown of how it was made for those interested: I basically traced one of her sleeveless dresses leaving a few inches around each side, and about 8 inches on the bottom.  I sewed it together and used elastic at the bottom to create the bubble skirt.  I sewed velcro on one of the shoulders so that she could get in and out of the costume.  And the finishing touch was the hood: I traced the hood of one of her sweaters, attached some ears, and then sewed it to the body of the costume.  If anyone wants actual details feel free to message me, but that’s a very brief description of the process.

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Adelaide LOVED trick or treating.  She loved ringing the doorbell and scooping candy into her bucket (which she would not let me get near if her life depended on it).  The first ten houses she picked only Snickers bars, until we finally started convincing her to choose other options.

I’ve been working on saying “trick or treat” with her for the last month or so, which she pronounces “tick teet” and is basically the best thing ever.

We gave her a little taste of chocolate over the weekend, but we weren’t sure what to call it, so randomly called it a cracker (mom fail on so many levels).  So now she keeps asking for crackers.  Which turns out to be a good thing because when we’re out in public I’m not embarrassed that she’s demanding candy crackers.

Mom win.

This was the first holiday that Adelaide really got involved in and actively participated.  I haven’t celebrated Halloween since I was in college, and I certainly never had as much fun as I did this year.

And because I get to eat all of Adelaide’s candy.

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