the baloney bug Over the weekend Jon and I took a trip up to Rochester to visit some family and college friends.  We hit quite a bit of snow, which made our long travels even longer more exciting.  Adelaide generally hates the car, but was a total trooper.

We got home last night and unpacked our snow gear only to have it on standby for another impending storm.

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Hope you had a wonderful weekend as well!

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Thanks so much to everyone who reached out yesterday as I returned to work.  The morning was incredibly hard, and I shed many a tear.  But by the afternoon I was so busy with work and counting down the hours to the end of the day that I felt much better.  I literally ran out the door and onto the subway.

Adelaide barely ate while I was at work, so she wanted to nurse all night long.  And I wanted to snuggle all night long, so it worked out well.  Except of course, I’m exhausted.

In completely unrelated news, these photos are from a rehearsal dinner we went to this weekend.  Jon had his, “this is thirty” moment when we came home and paid the high school babysitter.

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Back to work for day two.  It’s supposed to get easier, right?

On the Road

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We’ve been living on the road for the last couple of weeks.  Adelaide and I have spent the majority of our time in Maryland at my parents while Jon was in California on business.  Then the three of us had a quick trip to Pennsylvania followed by a few days in DC and then back to Maryland.

It’s been quite the whirlwind and it’s almost time to pack up and head back to New York.  I sure haven’t missed having to carry a baby (and all the stuff the baby requires) up and down the stairs of my walk up apartment.  Or scraping up quarters to do laundry.

But I sure do miss that city.

How to Make the Most of Your Wardrobe While Pregnant I’m nearly at the end of this pregnancy, and for the most part have loved dressing the bump.  I had one meltdown around month 7 where “I had nothing to wear” and literally came to work crying.  It can be really hard trying to look and feel good when your belly is growing at an exponential rate.

I figured I’d put together a couple of the things that have kept me sane (and gotten me out the door in the morning at a reasonable time) to hopefully help some other mama-to-be out there:

1. Invest in some great cardigans.  And of course, shop your closet for the ones you already have!

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First of all, can I ask: what is the deal with maternity cardigans??  Seriously, how are they different than non-maternity cardigans?  At the beginning of my pregnancy I bought a couple pull over sweaters a size up, but those quickly became too short.  If you’re going to buy any type of sweater, make it a cardigan.

I have been loving throwing a bright cardigan, or this Aztec cardigan over one of my maternity tees.  They act as a great accessory to your basics.  Which brings me to number two:

2. Buy the basics.

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I basically live in these $10 maternity tees from Target.  You can dress them up with a great pair of heels, add a cardigan or jacket over them, or lounge around the house in them.  Throw on a fun necklace or scarf and you’re good to go.  My maternity tees have by far been my most worn item.

3. Get a Belly Band!

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I’m sure all of the pregnant ladies have heard of these, but it’s basically a strip of stretchy fabric that you wear over your normal pants, so that you can wear them unbuttoned.  I bought this one and really love it.

I should mention that I hated the belly band in the beginning of my pregnancy, but now at the end I wear it quite regularly.  You can’t even tell that my pants are unzipped in that photo, can you?

4. Sign up for emails, shop sales/consignment and borrow from friends.

If I’m placing an order at Gap or Old Navy, I wait until a 30% off code comes around.  I’ve gotten a ton of name brand maternity wear from Gilt at discount.  And I’m willing to bet you also have friends with a bag or two of maternity clothes collecting dust in their basement.  Ask them!

5. Buy one or two trendy pieces.

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For the most part I wore what I already owned, or bought maternity basics.  But I decided to go out on a limb with these floral jeans.  Pregnant women should get to have some fun too, right?  And I don’t feel bad buying a pair of trendy maternity jeans because trends generally last one season anyways.  So why not have fun and indulge in the trends while pregnant?

6. Shop free shipping and free returns.

It’s almost impossible to tell if something is going to look good on your pregnant belly over a computer screen.  I bought a couple maternity pieces from one national chain only to receive it and have it all look awful.  I didn’t realize that you can only return via the mail (even though they have stores in every mall!) so I had to pay return shipping.  That really made me mad, and was the last time I purchased anything from them.

Instead, I’ve bought almost all of my maternity clothes from Gap, Old Navy and Target (Target doesn’t offer free returns, but you can return to any store).  They all have $50 free shipping minimums, but that’s easy to reach.  Plus you can just return the items that don’t fit for free!

7. Invest in one good pair of maternity jeans.

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Seriously, a pair of great fitting jeans will make all the difference in the world.  I bought these (from Gilt at about half price) and have seriously lived in them.  They fit well, they’re comfortable and they make me feel good.  And who doesn’t want to feel great in their jeans?

Week 36

the baloney bug Just four weeks left to go until my due date.  My emotions go back and forth between excited and nervous, but more and more the nervousness is turning to excitement.  I can’t wait to meet this little lady who has been spending ridiculous amounts of time kicking me in the ribs. 36 weeks preggo tries not to fall Friday night Jon and I stayed inside cuddled up with some take out while the snow came down outside.  Then we spent a good chunk of Saturday outside playing in the snow with Brady.  Catching snowballs might just be his very favorite thing ever. someone wants to play snowbaby air time close up I’m so in love with my little family.  Little one, we can’t wait to meet you.

Tea Party

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At eight months pregnant, it’s become quite an adventure finding things that fit the bump.  At this point even my maternity shirts are getting too short, so that’s fun.  I was a bit smitten with the pattern on this tea cup blouse.  So many maternity things I’ve come across are just plain ugly, so to find something playful was a breath of fresh air.

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can't forget the accessories blouse (non-maternity version here)/similar cardigan/similar necklace

Suddenly I’ve got a craving for a spot of tea.

Week 35

week 35

The countdown is officially on.  Just five more weeks to go.  I could say this a hundred times, but it seems like the shortest amount of time and the longest amount of time all rolled into one.

Our apartment has quickly become baby central, with a stroller, bassinet, wardrobe and bouncy chair taking up precious floor space.  And as tangible as those things are, it’s still hard to grasp that we’ll have another little human living here, needing those things, needing us in just a few short weeks.

it's actually a stolen basketball

t minus five weeks

Can’t wait to meet our little one.

Week 34

34 weeks

Just six weeks left to go??  It seems like the shortest and simultaneously longest amount of time possible.

I had an ultra sound last week to measure growth, and baby weighs 4.5lbs.  She’s been head down for a couple of weeks now, hiccuping at least once a day and kicking and stretching non stop.  It seems like she’s beginning to run out of space in there, because what used to be little jabs have become more of pushing up on my belly to make more room for herself.

It’s pretty amazing.  And a little bit freaky.

In other pregnancy related news, I still haven’t had any abnormal cravings and have not sent Jon out for any midnight runs.  It takes me an unusual amount of time to decide what I want to eat for each meal, unless that meal is cheese and pasta.  That, I always want.

I can still sleep through the night without having to use the bathroom, which I feel like is totally grounds for bragging at 34 weeks.  I still walk Brady every morning before the sun comes up (and holy heck, last week was cold) and take him to the dog park on weekends.

34 weeks

34 weeks

Oh, and I still can’t get a seat on the subway if my coat is zipped up.  New Yorkers do not mess around.


getting all 80s up in here

I’m pretty sure Jon was in a state of shock when I brought home these 80′s style pants.  He was all, “Floral…?  Floral maternity jeans?”

You better believe it, buddy.

Then when I paired them with a striped shirt AND WORE IT OUT OF THE HOUSE I expected him to walk ten feet behind me and pretend he didn’t know who I was.  But I’m carrying his child and all that jazz, so he sucked it up and walked beside me.

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close up pants (non-maternity version)/top/blazer/ring/shoes

And on another husband related note, I was telling him how I woke up in the middle of the night with a horrible charlie horse (a common joy during pregnancy) and decided instead of focusing on the pain I would breathe through it like we’d been learning in our birthing class.

“And that’s just pain.  Contractions are pain with a purpose” Jon says, reciting back our teacher’s favorite line.

“That’s very true” I said, “But if you say that to me while I’m in labor I will have to slap you.”

Week 32




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This weekend was yet another packed with baby tasks.  We went from having done literally nothing to being bombarded with schedules and to-do lists.

Saturday we had to go to Ikea (again) to pick up a couple pieces that were out of stock last weekend.  Then we had our second birthing class (of eight!!) Saturday night.  And finally, a hospital tour on Sunday.

Baby girl’s movement have gone from flutter like kicks to what feels like she’s run out of space and is stretching as far as she can.  I’ll see random body parts push my stomach up, and she’ll leave it pressed up while I try to figure out what limb she’s poking me with.

As the weeks go by we’re getting more and more excited to meet our little lady.

Luckily, we still have quite a to-do list to keep us busy until she arrives.